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You have changed

You have changed' is a very common phrase, we get to hear in social gatherings,reunions,parties, families, break ups, etc. sometimes in an excited tone or a sad tone, that depends on the situation in which we are.
Have we ever thought, what is the reason of such an evolution. yes, the question is why do we change?
The answer is our experiences of the world, the society, the family. Our experience of the other.Our perception about the other. Our intellectuality increases only due to our understanding and perception of the world. How do we perceive the other or how do the other makes us to perceive him/ her. What determines our perception towards the other. Its the other's behaviour that determines our perception towards the other.
 the other will perceive us as they experience us, and experience is determined by how we behave with the other. Experience is like the 'MOBIUS STRIP' which is always inside- out and outside- in. Our experience of the other determines our behaviour towards the other and vice- versa.
Location: Nashik, Maharashtra, India

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